Hi. It is not possible to control the size of the background video. You must create it as you need before uploading to the site.
And by the way. K2 gives an error. I would recommend to get rid of K2 as it seems that its development is over. In any case, more than a year there is no news from developers. In general, after the custom fields appear in Joomla, such things as the K2 and Zoo lost the meaning of existence.
And as you can see on my screenshot, the prohibition of the right click is meaningless. This can only cause problems on your site, but does not protect anything. It is easy to get around using Dev Tools. I also recommend getting rid of it.
It is very important to take care of the ecosystem of the site and not install any garbage. This can cause various problems. Your site looks very curves.